For you, oh, internets, I have an odd request. I am sending my KD to look at blogs of people who've used known donors and lived to tell the tale. That is, success stories. He's read too many (one is to many for me at this point) wide-eyed, look-how-fucked-up these-people-are, nuclear-families-rule versions of child-support battles being dragged before conservative judges. Time to combat those images. And he asked, just in case you think I'm being pushy.
I've sent him a bunch already, but I am sure there's some I've missed or don't realize have used known donors - since some people don't always say where they get their sperm from. Yes, this does seem a little stalker-y, so I'll totally understand if you feel weird about it, but if you don't you can leave a little comment, or email me (starrhillgirl at gmail dot com). Please?
I have all faith in you, the IVP.